Why do we have such a hard time to wait and see ??

Everything has a good and a bad side. A really dry desert would have an oasis, but u just have to search with patience. Every throny rose bush will flower, u just have to wait with patience. Every evil person would have a little goodness in them, u just have to believe in that person and encourage him/her. But ..... How many of us wait that long? How many of us want to wait ?? WHy do we just give up soon ?

Why do we have such a hard time to wait and see ??
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I really agree with you for the above quoted sentences.



People doesn't have that much of patience to wait and see. People are always eager for immediate results. They just want immediate results. No one wants to wait for that long.



But my theory is, " IF YOU WAIT FOR A LITTLE LONGER, THEN YOU'LL GET BETTER RESULTS".



and even that, " IF YOU WAIT FOR A LITTLE LONGER, THEN THE FRUIT WILL BE VERY SWEET".



I always have the above quoted proverbs used in any possible way in my life. I just want my life to be happy. I have suffered many tragedies and frankly speaking now i am tired of carrying the memories of those tragedies.



Ofcourse the memories will always remain within my heart and my mind. But now i have started living for myself. Now i just want to be happy and that's it. No more of tensions, worries and depressions for me. The quota is full now....lolz......



I think people instead of giving up very soon, should make plans of getting more patience and to stand by that situation for a little long. Wait and you will automatically see the better outcomes/ results...... :) ....tc...sweet dreamz.....bye....



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Reply:I suppose it's because we are a society based upon instant gratification, which is incredibly motivating. Patience can be incredibly demotivating because none of us know if we will wake up tomorrow, therefore we want what we can get now, even if it's not all it would've been, had've we waited.
Reply:ever hear of the young and the restless?
Reply:good question! a star for you!!

you are right and know what? i am waiting for certain changes in life!! in others. i know i have enough patience. i am waiting along with my friend gentleman and larry m. waiting to chang the world. waiting to find the right time. i know we will succeed. it would be more easier if more people could join with us. we are the trinity but not holy so we will need more sisters and brothers!!!!!! looking forward to seeing you all!!!!!!!
Reply:I guess it's because no one has patients to wait for anything because, they might feel like they are missing out on something better that might happen, or come along. What we all must do is to remember that good things come to those that wait. : )
Reply:I'm sure everyone has had their waits. Just because you're waiting for something doesn't mean you have to sit still. There's no real guidebook to life.
Reply:The mind is such it wants change always.The mind isn't trained to be patient.It's a wave which is very fast.Unless we train it, it will not have the patience.
Reply:Because anticipation is like a disease.Have you ever noticied how people are always in anticipation of the next Holiday or event that is exciting in their life?I just can't wait for Christmas to see what I get.I just can't wait for my birthday.I justcan't wait until tomorrow says the kids because we are going to Cedar Point or some exciting place.I hate winter,I just can't wait until Spring.We are always living in expectation well aware that life is finite.In stead of Carpe Diem(living for the day) we are always wringing our hands wishing it was tomorrow.How often have you heard "I just can't wait"?You've heard the saying "patience is a virtue.'I would trade a gallon of impatience for a milligram of patience.Like Bela Lugosi said to Ed Wood just before he died in his last film "plan Nine From Outer Space"."Eddie, Eddie we must take time to smell the roses."Is ther ever a moment of time when you are not in the present?Waiting,waiting,waiting for a future that may or may not materalize.Or have you ever heard, "Just like in the Army,hurry up and wait."?Waiting and Expectation is just part and parcel of the Human Condition.Want always exceeds need.We are always living in the hope that tomorrow will bring our wants.One day you see a farmers field, tomorrow you will have a mall with the hopes of prosperity.The times are far fewer when we want the day to never end.Those are special times and days.Always cherish them in memory, because the next day will see us waiting and expecting.Well Beauty Queen I'll be anxiously waiting to answer another question.
Reply:Its the age of instant gratification.

Instant coffee, instant communication, instant cash (ATMs). Even instant sex!

We are in such a hurry for everything. We just don't have the patience to wait.