Trashing the roses from your valentine in front of them??

My bf came to NY to see me from MD, and he said he got a surprise for me. He brough out a dozen of roses from his suitcase and they were a little withered and some petals were already dried up at the end of some flowers.



I was so angry I took the the rose and throw them in to the trash can in front of him.



What made me so angry is that he see the roses are dead and he still buys them for me. It so thoughless, its like he buying me rose because its a progress or chores, not because he cares.



Am I too irrational? maybe I am.

We been together for 3 valentines already, and this is the first time he remembers its valentine. I really looked forward to spending this nice day together, and i planned a lot of thing, but this really puts it off to a bad start for us.



Lady: would you be angry if you receive dead looking roses from your valentine? And what would you have done?



Guys, how would have reacted if you were my bf? Do you thinks its deserved or not?



thanks for your helps

Trashing the roses from your valentine in front of them??
The roses probably were fine when he bought them and didn't survive the trip in the suitcase very well. Guys don't think of things like that. If he were a flower expert, he would have known not to put them in the suitcase. He made an effort to spend Valentine's day with you and you got angry? I think you overreacted. They're flowers, it happens. I would have thanked him for the thought and waited to see what else he had in mind for the rest of the day.
Reply:Just maybe it was an honest but foolish mistake on his part by putting the roses in the suitcase. Was he hiding them and trying to surprise you by any chance? Let's face it, they aren't going to look to healthy coming from a suitcase. At least he tried.
Reply:He tried to do something nice for you! Okay, so it didn't work out like in movies with roses that look like they might still have roots attached, but he at least tried. Yeah, probably anyone would have thrown them away, but most women would have had compassion enough to at least wait until he was gone. Do you not even have a heart?