What do i do if my gf keeps thinking about taking a break?

ok its like this my gf of 7 months (im only in 10th grade) is really busy with modeling class and voice lessons, so she's really weighted down with everything, so she keeps asking if we need to take a break cuz she's got to much going on. ok i buy it. also we are always getting in fights, and she's always mad at me, (dont get me wrong i love her and when im with her it feels unbelievable, sry for the spelling), but now im starting to get a little mad at her, like when a secret admirerer sends her stuff and she down talks me and says i never give her flowers, but i did spend 64 hours give or take on a jewelry box for her, im always trying to out do my self and the reason i havent given her flowers is cuz im growing my own and they just bloomed. but this week end she stood me up three times to go and hang out with her friends while im left high and dry because i cancled all my plans. and i adressed this and now she is considerind breaking up with me. wat do i do, she is every thing to me

What do i do if my gf keeps thinking about taking a break?
This is coming from a guy,



Dude, Face it, I'm 27 years old and I always wnated a girlfriend when i was in high school but they never worked out, It really got me down a times,



But today i look back and think how meaningless those relationships are when your like 15 or 16, virtually nobody i know who was together then is together now.



I don't mena to diss your girl, But she sounds REALLY immature, she got all pissed cause you didin't get her flowers, that's stupid!!! Let her F****N "secret admirer" get her what she wants then.



She leaves you high and dry for her friends, yo say something and she contemplates breaking up.



Do what you want dude, but remember this "love cannot be forced upon anyone"



If you want my honest opinion, She suggests breaking up with her, I'd break up with her, And if she does like you, Whaich I'm going to be straight up with ya I think she's just using you, Wait till she comes and begs for forgivness, Otherwise dude your young and You'll have an opportunity at PLENTY of chicks out there.
Reply:if she keeps talking about taking a break, tell her she's got it. what's the point of wasting YOUR time playing games ya know? I think you deserve better than that.
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Reply:Get her all the soughts of presents she likes. Tell her how much you love her and how much taken a break will break your heart. If she insists, cry over it.
Reply:Well sweetie, it sounds to me like you are doing everything right, it's her that has the problem! Take it from a woman, you are very considerate, and that's the first step to a good relationship. Unfortunately, some young women aren't mature enough to appreciate this in a man, if ever! We all get our hearts broke, it's a fact of life. I'm sorry that you are going through this, but believe me when I say that you will be better off without her!
Reply:LET HER TAKE ONE. SHE MAY NEED TIME TO HERSELF
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Reply:Ok huni, ive beent his girlfriend before.. im still am this girlfriend. i sugest you have her some space. let her take her "break" with you, but send her flowers with cards attached, suprise her with little trips... when i was doughting my relationship i told my boyfriend we needed to take a break. well the next night he never called me never came to see me i didnt hear from him (wich is un normal because i saw him or talked to him every night for a year) well the next morning he came over early woke me up and took me to eat... we drove for probly 3 hours and he wouldnt tell me where we were going... finally we got there, he took me to the grand canyon! the night before he went there and found a perfect spot that he could sit me down in and then he started tellin me how much he cares and aprichiates me... and respects my wish's if i would like to take a break. by the time he got done expressing his feelings for me i was so happy i didnt want the break any more. so try something sper of the moment. it doesnt have to be big, write poems give her a flower. do the whole home movies and such. make her feel special and apprichiated. things will look up for the two of you! good luck!
Reply:listen. if anyone does that to someone, its considered shady. you dont ditch, you make plans and stick to them. if you don't have time and need a break then you shouldn't even be in a relationship in the first place. you sound like you know how to have a relationship and i don't think this one is right for you. find someone who isnt as needy [sry but your in 10th grade, i didnt even know what a job was, and me wanting flowers, ha, i was just happy with a kiss, and ps ive been with my boyfriend since tenth grade and i am now happy with him as a sophmore in college, 4yrs later] don't take that sht from her.
Reply:Honestly? It sounds kinda one sided. She seems to have no respect or consideration for you. She keeps standing you up! I think that when she asks you if you think you 2 need a break, she's actually telling you that SHE wants to take one. You guys need to have a serious discussion about this.
Reply:SHE DOESN'T WANNA BE WITH YOU, BUT THEN SHE DOES. SHE'S CONFUSED AND YOU SHOULD SHOW HER THAT YOU MOVED BECAUSE THEN SHE WILL COME BACK.